Texting is an important part of building sexual tension when attracting beautiful women. One of the best things about texting is that you have time to think about what you are going to say - an opportunity which you don't get in face to face communications. What's more, women love text messaging. If you've ever observed a girl in a social setting, you'll notice how much many text messages she sends. Texting seems to be rapidly replacing phone conversations as a favored communication method.
So when you use texting in the right way, you can build enough attraction that you won't have to do so much in person, when you see her next. There's just one problem...most guys have no clue what to write in their text messages. They tend to write the same way in which they hold conversations, which means their texts are usually plain and straight to the point. Women on the other hand use text messaging as a key tool for keeping in touch with family and friends, meaning their messages are far more expressive and emotive.
So guys, before you send a text to a beautiful woman who you want to attract, think very carefully about how that message will advance the flirting and sexual tension you're working on creating. Here are some top tips to using texting effectively for attracting women.
Easing the path to the first date
When you first get a girl's number, it's easy to lose the initial attraction in the time before you make that all-important first phone call. With texting, you can bridge the gap and keep the attraction alive. Whilst texting should never replace a phone call, sending a few carefully thought-out messages can be an excellent way to get a beautiful girl to think about you some more. And when you go to call her, she'll immediately connect with the flirtatious signals that you've already given her. So texting can actually make it easier to make that first call and set up the first date.
Breaking the ice
Texting should involve some gentle teasing and familiarity. It's a good idea to start by referring to an event or conversation that happened when you first met. Perhaps you teased her about something during that meeting that you can refer to again - it will easily bring a smile to her face.
Date follow-up
Use texting to continue the sexual tension which is hopefully building nicely between you now. Don't say anything crass or anything which makes it too clear that you really like the girl. Back up any nice remarks with a little teasing, for example "tomorrow will be fun, just don't do anything silly in front of my buddies."
Keeping up the momentum
Sexual tension can be lost as quickly as it is gained, so it is important to keep building the attraction at every stage of the relationship and make sure the lines of communication are always open. As the relationship progresses, you can get more daring with your messages and take the teasing to a whole new level.
Do's and Don'ts of Texting
In summary, here are some key things to remember about flirty texting etiquette:
DO...
• Keep messages short and sweet (save longer chats for the phone)
• Keep things fun and playful
• Retain an air of mystery and keep up the sexual tension
• Develop your own unique style
• Use what you know about her to tease her
On the other hand, DON'T...
• Answer any deep questions (that's for phone conversations)
• Send the same texts to every woman - you must make each message unique and personal
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